"Just because I'm talking - doesn't mean we're friends"

OK – you don’t deserve my time nor my consideration but here goes

I could take a poll but I am going to let the facts speak for themselves.

You ARE harassing someone when:

They have told you to stop writing to them and yet you continue to do so

I consider the word writing to include and not be limited to:

Email and putting stuff on my blog – both of which you did AFTER I told you to cease and desist – do you know what the term 'cease and desist' means? Do you need someone to buy you a dictionary?

#2 You ARE harassing someone when:

You write unsolicited letters to THEIR family members and THEIR FUCKING EX HUSBANDS (?!?!?!?!?!?!?) to give those people AGAIN your unsolicited opinion...

For the record no one and I mean NO ONE gives a flying fuck about your opinion of MY fiancé...LOL – LEAST of all my ex husband who thinks you are nuts, BTW – as does everyone else I have mentioned this to. Where do you get off? What gives you the right to do this? Who the hell asked you for your opinion? Um no one – there’s an old saying: When I want your opinion, I’LL ASK YOU FOR IT – I don’t recall asking...

Even if I AM making a mistake with my love life, it is NONE of your business – even my friends don’t say things unless *I* ask them and I DO ask my friends – but they are my close friends, my family. Even still – if again I AM making a mistake since I am a BIG girl isn’t the onus of the responsibility on me to figure out my life? I have been through hell and back – it’s my problem - so if indded *I* choose to visit that again it’s on me. I will deal with it.

You have been vicious to my fiancé – did you not expect me to go to his defense? You called him names in front of a group of people all because he disagreed with you AND had the balls to say so. He never got vicious back with you. You called me a stupid bitch, you told me that you would be laughing when my relationship fell apart. Yet to my daughter, to my ex husband you claim you and I were close – that we were friends – well my friends don’t call me names. They don’t wish ill on me like that – with friends like that – who the hell needs enemies?

Were you and I close? At one time – sure we were – sure I asked you about moving to Ohio – I believe that was because you were having a hard time getting work where you live – gee I am wondering if that could have something to do with your constantly being on the internet, harassing people on their blogs, and causing problems all around – do you have a life? I see no evidence of one.

I got vicious my dear because you got vicious with me, with the man I love. I got vicious because you seemed completely out of line in your attacks (not to mention, pardon me, but a bit obsessive and jealous). As my ex husband said to me (oh yeah did you think these people would not contact me about your writing to them? Just how stupid are you?) – who the hell writes such things – like about your not being romantically interested in me cause you were too young – need I remind you of what you wrote and continually said to me about wanting to fuck me? Um yeah OK – it was a one way street if I recall my dear and it was ALL on your end – in fact if I remember correctly I told YOU that YOU were too young for me – you need to seriously grow up.

Now, I have better things to do with my time – (and unless something further happens (which I am going to trust is NOT going to be the case) this will be the last time I address this matter, at least publically.) And, I suggest you find something better to do with your time.

Good luck to you.